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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS


Who Are the Members of Al-Anon/Altateen? Al-Anon and Alateen members are people just like you and me–people who have been affected by someone else's drinking. They are parents, children, spouses, partners, brothers, sisters, other family members, friends, employers, employees, and coworkers of alcoholics. No matter what our specific experience has been we share a common bond: we feel our lives have been affected by someone else's drinking.

Do I have to talk at the meetings? No, you are not required to share anything if you don't want to. It is your choice to speak or not during the meetings. Newcomers are welcomed to meetings, usually provided with literature and a local meeting list.

Will anyone say I was there? Al-Anon program's basic principles is that of anonymity. Meetings are confidential, and we do not disclose whom we see or what we hear at meetings to anyone.

Do Al-Anon meetings cost anything? There are no dues or fees in Al-Anon and Alateen meetings. Al-Anon is self-supporting through it's own voluntary contributions. Meetings usually pass a basket around to pay for expenses such as rent (space used for meetings) and literature, but all contributions are strictly voluntary.

I am not religious and haven't been to church in years. Will I still be welcome in Al-Anon? Absolutely! Al-Anon is not allied with any sect, denomination or religion. People of any religious faith or of none are welcome. While many Al-Anon meetings are held in churches, the meetings themselves are not affiliated with the church in question. Though not a religious program, many people experience spiritual growth through participating in AL-ANON and ALATEEN, regardless of their personal beliefs.

What is alcoholism? Alcoholism is widely recognized as a disease of compulsive drinking; It is a progressive illness, which will get only worse as long as the person continues to drink. Total abstinence from drinking is the only way to arrest the disease. Alcoholism affects the entire family; indeed, everyone who has contact with the alcoholic is affected. Unfortunately, the only person who can stop the alcoholic from drinking is the alcoholic himself or herself.

Who are alcoholics? They could be anyone, from all backgrounds and walks of life. Over 95 percent of alcoholics have families, friends, and jobs. They may function fairly well, but some part of their life is suffering. Their drinking causes a continuing and growing problem in their lives, and the lives they touch.

How do alcoholics affect families and friends? Alcoholism is a family disease. The disease affects all those who have a relationship with a problem drinker. Those of us closest to the alcoholic suffer the most, and those who care the most can easily get caught up in the behavior of another person. We react to the alcoholic's behavior. We focus on them, what they do, where they are, how much they drink. We try to control their drinking for them. We take on the blame, guilt, and shame that really belong to the drinker. We can become as addicted to the alcoholic, as the alcoholic is to alcohol. We, too, can become ill.

How will Al-Anon help me? Many who come to Al-Anon/Alateen are in despair, feeling hopeless, unable to believe that things can ever change. We want our lives to be different, but nothing we have done has brought about change. We all come to Al-Anon because we want and need help. In Al-Anon and Alateen, members share their own experience, strength, and hope with each other. You will meet others who share your feelings and frustrations, if not your exact situation. We come together to learn a better way of life, to find happiness whether the alcoholic is still drinking or not.






Frequently Asked QuestionsAl-Anon’s Three Legacies -- Twelve Steps, The Twelve Traditions, Twelve Concepts of Service





SERENITY PRAYER

God grant me the serenity,
To accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.


Al-Anon / Alateen
3509 Haworth Dr   Suite 200
Raleigh, NC 27609
(919) 787-1653
Email: aso_ldc@bellsouth.net

Office Hours:
Mon – Thurs 9:00 am – 5:00 pm

24 HOUR SERVICE LINE -- (919) 713-1516

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